Sunday, January 30, 2022

What is it about date four?

I've been doing online dating off and on for years. In that time, I've noticed a pattern emerge. Date four seems to carry some sort of significance I wasn't aware of. I've had lots of first dates and some second dates, but I start to get nervous after a successful third date. After date three, there is a sort of turning point. If my potential partner and I can make it to date four, it lasts for a minimum of a couple months. I wondered if other people noticed this pattern, so I Googled "What is the significance of four dates?" Apparently it is really a thing. By date four, you already know you like each other and you're trying to decide if you can see a future together, not necessarily marriage, but if you could "see yourself" with this person. Whether everyone else has read the "rule book" except me, it seems there is something to four dates.

Be authentic in your journey.


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